In recent years, the rise of social media has significantly impacted the way Muslim youth in Northern Nigeria interact with each other and maintain kinship ties. This essay explores how social media has contributed to the decline of traditional kinship values and proposes ways to revive these essential relationships.
The Changing Dynamics of Kinship
Before the advent of social media, kinship ties were strong, and youth showed great respect and affection towards their elders and extended family members.
However, with the proliferation of social media platforms, youth have become increasingly disconnected from their family roots. Elders, who once played a vital role in passing down values and traditions, are now often ignored or neglected.
The Consequences of Weakened Family Relations
The decline of kinship values has severe consequences, including the loss of cultural heritage, social support, and a sense of belonging.
Family relations are a source of strength, pride, and blessing, but the current trend of neglecting these ties has led to a breakdown in communication and a lack of trust.
Reviving Kinship Values
To reverse this trend, youth must take the following steps:
- Engage with family members on social media platforms and show genuine interest in their lives.
- Practice charity and kindness towards extended family members, even if it’s just a simple greeting.
- Learn about their lineage and heritage to strengthen family ties.
Conclusion
The erosion of kinship values among Muslim youth in Northern Nigeria is a pressing concern. By recognising the importance of family relations and taking steps to revive these ties, we can rebuild a sense of community and belonging. Let us honour our ancestors and heritage by carrying our past into the present and future.
* Muhammad Joji writes from Al-Qalam University Katsina. He is the author of
Social Media: Threat to Book (2020) and Drugs, Sex, Social Media, and Greed: Trials of the Millennia (2020)
